what is space ????

What is this space??

Everyone keeps saying- keep some space in the relationship., give the other person some space, no relationship is ok without the space .......and much more of this space !!!

Life is free, our friends, loved ones are close. why do we have to keep them in the dark about things and have this SPACE ????
Why can't we be very free with our loved ones.......... free i don't mean stiffled or staying under pressure..... free i mean, just be frank, straight with them.
we dont have to draw lines or hide things from them to do what we want. we can just do what we want in our lives openly ....... with those who are close to us. If we keep having this SPACE between us, then how are they close to us ???? Close means........being one !!! it doesn't hve to be with a boyfriend/girlfriend/fiance/spouse only.........close can be anyone. Friend, Love, siblings, Parents, Spouse..........anyone !

Why do we have to think so much ? Why do we have to hide so much ?? Don't you think...we all spend so much of our energy thinking, hiding.....this hs to be told to x , this to y, x shouldnt know what i told y etc........when both x and y are our special people... !!

Maybe I am wrong. Maybe I don't understand the fineness and intricacies of relationships..........But I am sure I can't do it in my life, in my relationships.
I don't need any space. My loved ones can invade my life, my so called privacy.

I might lose more people than gain with my understanding and application of relationships in my life........but then that's life !!

People tell me I should understand their point of view, their thinking, their need of space.........but then i tell them......have u tried to understand mine?
No! Coz its not possible. It's not their fault that they can't understand, as neither can I.

So the very few people who love me as I am, who accept me and my thinkings... Thanks a ton. Those who don't.......Love u all !!!